The evil Dong Jie made Pan Yueming collapse again

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Dong Jie is “acting like a monster” again?

Just a few days ago,#东杰 admits that he was willful back then#’s trending searches are on all platforms.

When you click in and take a look, you will be overwhelmed by the past events.

The two most widely circulated interviews are:

One paragraph is from 2016’s “Xingyue Private Talk”. Dong Jie said: “Sometimes when it is a knot, you can’t get rid of it, and you can’t get over it if it becomes a hurdle. But if you are calm, many things will come and go.”

The other part is from Dong Jie’s slow talk variety show “Mao Xue Wang” last year, where she said that she used to be very tight:

“One time I was driving and heard a song. There was a drum sound in the song, which was very cathartic and powerful. After hearing it, I burst into tears, and then I said to myself, Dong Jie, let’s start over!”

It looks like everything has gone through thousands of sails and is transparent.

But netizens don’t buy it: Find a few old videos and do a hot search. Ms. Dong, who has sold more than 100 million yuan in goods, wants to clear her name again?

Almost at the same time, Pan Yueming, who has always been low-key, posted on Weibo:

“Does it have to be so realistic…”

Not naming anyone, but he looked very helpless, tired, and broken.

8 words form a sharp knife, piercing into old wounds.

Looking through Weibo from those years, I feel that Pan Yueming “loved him so much”.

He calls Dong Jie with “Little D” and treats social media as a love diary:

“The cutest little monkeys in the world are Dong Jie and a stamp monkey.”

“I met up with friends for a vacation. Little D still had work to do, so he could only stay in Beijing pitifully.”

“Naughty, so naughty!”

Dong Jie drew a picture for him, and he immediately posted it happily.

Even if Dong Jie changes her wallet to pay for it, she can charm him.

He has said many times in public:

“No matter how you are, the one thing you have done right in this life is to marry the best wife.”

Unfortunately, Pan Yueming is the only one who falls in fairy tale love.

In October 2012, Dong Jie’s agent issued an open letter, accusing Pan Yueming of causing the breakdown of their marriage:

As a man, why can’t you bravely tell everyone that your separation was because of your gambling habit and rudeness?

At that time, Dong Jie had already become the “national white moonlight” with her role as Leng Qingqiu in “The Golden Family” and was firmly on the front line.

The goddess complained, and the whole network was one-sided. Pan Yueming became a scumbag known by thousands of people. His reputation plummeted and his career came to a halt.

In order to prove her innocence, Dong Jie also claimed that Pan Yueming hired paparazzi to follow her for a month, but found nothing.

She thought these words would make her invincible, but unexpectedly aroused the pride of the paparazzi, “We are not hired by Pan Yueming, but if you say I can’t do it, then I will definitely take pictures of you!”

Three months later, a video of Dong Jie and Wang Dazhi kissing passionately hit the internet, and the truth came out.

Otherwise, Pan Yueming never thought of using underhanded tactics to deal with Dong Jie. Instead, it was Zhuo Wei’s move that dealt her a fatal blow.

This is probably the first waterloo in Dong Jie’s smooth life.

She appeared on the Spring Festival Gala when she was 16 years old and played a small role in Zhao Lirong and Gong Hanlin’s sketch.

The 20-year-old substitute Zhou Xun sang “Together in this Life” with Nicholas Tse and stunned the whole country in a wedding dress.

Selected by Zhang Yimou to star in “Happy Days” as a girl, her first taste of fame;

Later, the two roles of Leng Qingqiu in “The Golden Family” and Zhan Yan in “The Love” became her life-saving talisman, with strong popularity among passers-by.

However, the higher you hold it, the harder it may fall.

There is a saying by Liu Yuning that impressed me very deeply: Actors have “favors”. The audience will pour their love for the character into the actor, but that love should not belong to the actor.

At that time, Dong Jie had obviously been dazzled by favoritism and aura, and regarded the generous gifts of fate as what she deserved.

He got it too easily and didn’t know how to cherish it, so he destroyed it all with his own hands.

Now I have changed my word to “willful”, but can these two light words really erase more than ten years of pain and offset another person’s ruined life?

In that devastating marriage, Pan Yueming showed an almost stupid dignity.

He once said: “I have a clear conscience towards you and our feelings.”

In 2013, the court ruled that Dong Jiefang had spread rumors. At that time, the agent who issued an open letter said that “Dong Jie was the main instigator in smearing Pan Yueming.”

At this point, Pan Yueming’s attitude is still tolerant and trusting.

When he was slandered, he was open-minded and only wanted to check the accounts to prove himself. When making public statements, he chose to target his manager rather than his ex-wife.

“I’m still waiting because I love my children and this family.”

However, his kindness did not result in anything.

After experiencing a series of scandals, Pan Yueming’s reputation was ruined, his business contract was terminated, and the risk of public opinion caused him to be excluded from the starring list by major directors.

He became depressed, sluggish, and gained weight crazily. The glorious young man he used to be no longer existed.

But when someone interviewed him, his answer was still: he didn’t regret the encounter, he just wanted to change the ending.

He has not deleted any of his romantic past with Dong Jie on Weibo.

The reason is, “I want my children to know that I was born because of love.”

Emotions were not investigated, and career setbacks were tolerated.

What really hit Pan Yueming was that their common child was raised by Dong Jie, but she refused to associate with Pan Yueming for a long time, and would not let the child contact him alone.

For more than ten years, he was unable to visit his children. He could only post a symbol of a bull’s head and a balloon on his birthday to wish him well from a distance.

Originally, he would continue to tolerate all this, until Dong Jie took his son on the variety show “Mom is Superman”, preaching the words “If a child has no father, he must face reality” to guide public opinion.

Finally, Pan Yueming asked publicly: “If we really want to face reality, do we dare to tell the truth?”

The subsequent intersection was the Great Reconciliation of the Century spread online.

In February 2023, on Dingding’s 14th birthday, Pan Yueming posted a video of his son for the first time and @ Dong Jie.

The two linked up on Weibo, and Dong Jie forwarded: “He will definitely get better and better.”

butThis belated reconciliation did not make people feel comfortable.

It is not a healing product of time, but rather like a negotiation of “holding the emperor to order the princes” – because not long after, Dong Jie officially started live streaming.

It can be seen that she needs this “forgiveness” to earn back her good reputation and pave the way for her business territory.

And all she paid was to give up a small step, allowing the father and son who had been separated for decades to meet a few times.

It is sad to think about it. Whether it is marriage or divorce, in this grudge that has been entangled for more than ten years, Dong Jie has always been the party with power, while Pan Yueming has always been the lower one.

The saying “Character determines destiny” is vividly reflected in them.

Both of them have had their second moment of fame.

Pan Yueming made a counterattack with “White Night” and “Ghost Blowing the Lamp”, but he is Buddhist, calm and unwilling to hype the past, and now he has returned to a semi-retired state.

But Dong Jie is different. She is confident and strong, determined to become famous, and can give way to anything to achieve her goals.

As soon as it came back, it was able to accurately capture the trend. The average monthly sales in the second year of live broadcast exceeded 100 million, firmly ranking first in the commercial value list of buyers on a certain platform.

Dong Jie is a tough woman, there is no doubt about it.

At the age of 46, she can still have a career turnaround. She firmly grasped the opportunity by herself.

But it is not a wise decision to hold on to the bad debt of the past and dwell on it again and again.

Even if he had an affair back then, it could be explained as an emotional breakdown and not having survived the seven-year itch.

But setting up a trap and pretending that one’s own faults are the moral stains of the other party has completely lost the bottom line.

Rather than being willful, cruelty is more appropriate to describe that year.

Nowadays, Dong Jie has made a lot of money, and she wants to reverse the oral broadcast and achieve both fame and fortune by confessing on trending searches.

But the Internet is no longer as easy to fool as it was ten years ago. If a netizen misses something once, he or she will not make a mistake a second time.

Society can give Dong Jie a chance to transform, but this mercy should not be abused.

The wealth has been obtained. As for “innocence”, please let go of the exhausted ex-husband.

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